{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Off The Record After Hours","home_page_url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com","description":"Off The Record After Hours","author":{"name":"Off The Record After Hours"},"items":[{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/twenty-minutes-to-yourself","html_content":"

SEASON 2 · COMPANION BLOG · SHOWER, SHAVE, SHIT & SHINE

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/twenty-minutes-to-yourself","title":"TWENTY MINUTES TO YOURSELF","summary":"SEASON 2 · COMPANION BLOG · SHOWER, SHAVE, SHIT & SHINE","date_modified":"2026-09-09T16:21:25Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/off-the-record-on-purpose-keep-some-things-off-the-internet","html_content":"

Thank God there were no camera phones when I was nineteen.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/off-the-record-on-purpose-keep-some-things-off-the-internet","title":"OFF THE RECORD, ON PURPOSE : Keep Some Things Off The Internet","summary":"Thank God there were no camera phones when I was nineteen.","date_modified":"2026-09-06T17:29:18Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/the-business-of-desire","html_content":"

The Business of Desire: What It Actually Costs to Sell What Everyone Wants

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/the-business-of-desire","title":"The Business of Desire","summary":"The Business of Desire: What It Actually Costs to Sell What Everyone Wants","date_modified":"2026-09-02T01:33:48Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/zaddy-knows-best---second-chances-arent-amnesty","html_content":"

So He Wants a Second Chance? Cute. Let's See His Evidence.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/zaddy-knows-best---second-chances-arent-amnesty","title":"Zaddy Knows Best - Second Chances Aren't Amnesty","summary":"So He Wants a Second Chance? Cute. Let's See His Evidence.","date_modified":"2026-08-28T15:16:42Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/he-likes-you-too-now-what","html_content":"

The Part of Gay Dating Nobody Teaches You

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/he-likes-you-too-now-what","title":"He Likes You Too. Now What?","summary":"The Part of Gay Dating Nobody Teaches You","date_modified":"2026-08-26T15:47:31Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/youre-gay-who-cares","html_content":"

One of the biggest lies we accidentally tell young gay people is that once you come out, you somehow get issued a community.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/youre-gay-who-cares","title":"You're Gay. Who Cares? ","summary":"One of the biggest lies we accidentally tell young gay people is that once you come out, you somehow get issued a community.","date_modified":"2026-08-23T12:00:00Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/just-say-no-women-cannot-be-drag-queens","html_content":"

Just Say No: Why Cisgender Women Can't Be Drag Queens (And Why That's Not an Insult)

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/just-say-no-women-cannot-be-drag-queens","title":"Just Say 'No'! Women Cannot Be Drag Queens","summary":"Just Say No: Why Cisgender Women Can't Be Drag Queens (And Why That's Not an Insult)","date_modified":"2026-08-19T15:39:35Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/nobody-is-coming-to-rescue-you","html_content":"

Sit down, baby. Zaddy's got a hard truth for you today, and I'm only telling you because I love you.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/nobody-is-coming-to-rescue-you","title":"Nobody Is Coming To Rescue You","summary":"Sit down, baby. Zaddy's got a hard truth for you today, and I'm only telling you because I love you.","date_modified":"2026-08-16T16:00:00Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/they%E2%80%99re-calling-it-%E2%80%9Cpainting%E2%80%9D-we-need-to-talk","html_content":"

Content Note: This article contains explicit language, adult sexual themes, frank discussion of anal sex, and descriptions of bodily functions.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/they%E2%80%99re-calling-it-%E2%80%9Cpainting%E2%80%9D-we-need-to-talk","title":"They’re Calling It “Painting.” We Need to Talk.","summary":"Content Note: This article contains explicit language, adult sexual themes, frank discussion of anal sex, and descriptions of bodily functions.","date_modified":"2026-08-14T21:56:16Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/%E2%80%9Cserving-cunt%E2%80%9D-is-your-generation%E2%80%99s-%E2%80%9Cfierce%E2%80%9D","html_content":"

We just called it being a flaming queen who could also throw a punch if some closet case got handsy. Same energy, different vocabulary, and significantly less cardio. Now it’s all filtered selfies, carefully curated hash...

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/%E2%80%9Cserving-cunt%E2%80%9D-is-your-generation%E2%80%99s-%E2%80%9Cfierce%E2%80%9D","title":"“Serving cunt” is your generation’s “fierce.”\n","summary":"We just called it being a flaming queen who could also throw a punch if some closet case got handsy. Same energy, different vocabulary, and significantly less cardio. Now it’s all filtered selfies, carefully curated hash...","date_modified":"2026-08-10T02:47:28Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/kinky-consent-culture-is-an-upgrade","html_content":"

I admit, I chuckle inside whenever anyone under thirty asks me about my kinks. Gen Sephora and the TikTok natives discovered kink the way a golden retriever discovers Chipotle steak sauce on a forgotten plate on the tabl...

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/kinky-consent-culture-is-an-upgrade","title":"\"Kinky?\" : Consent Culture Is An Upgrade","summary":"I admit, I chuckle inside whenever anyone under thirty asks me about my kinks. Gen Sephora and the TikTok natives discovered kink the way a golden retriever discovers Chipotle steak sauce on a forgotten plate on the tabl...","date_modified":"2026-08-09T23:17:06Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/conjunction-dysfunction-the-pronoun-train-wreck","html_content":"

Conjunction Dysfunction: The Pronoun Trainwreck

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/conjunction-dysfunction-the-pronoun-train-wreck","title":"CONJUNCTION DYSFUNCTION: The Pronoun Train Wreck","summary":"Conjunction Dysfunction: The Pronoun Trainwreck","date_modified":"2026-08-02T06:56:36Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/honesty-is-such-a-lonely-word","html_content":"

The heat in Hell’s Kitchen has been so brutal lately that even the Devil would be asking for SPF 50 and a shady table. So on one of the more survivable days, my dog and I escaped to a nearby public courtyard: a lovely li...

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/honesty-is-such-a-lonely-word","title":"HONESTY IS SUCH A LONELY WORD","summary":"The heat in Hell’s Kitchen has been so brutal lately that even the Devil would be asking for SPF 50 and a shady table. So on one of the more survivable days, my dog and I escaped to a nearby public courtyard: a lovely li...","date_modified":"2026-07-27T22:38:38Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/zaddy-ryans-brochure-to-gay-dating-almost","html_content":"

**Sex, Dating, and That Terrifyingly Beautiful Vulnerability: Daddy Ryan’s Unfiltered Brochure**

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/zaddy-ryans-brochure-to-gay-dating-almost","title":"Zaddy Ryan's Brochure To Gay Dating","summary":"**Sex, Dating, and That Terrifyingly Beautiful Vulnerability: Daddy Ryan’s Unfiltered Brochure**","date_modified":"2026-07-24T02:52:54Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/believe-them-the-first-time","html_content":"

Believe Them the First Time

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/believe-them-the-first-time","title":"Believe Them The First Time","summary":"Believe Them the First Time","date_modified":"2026-07-18T03:59:41Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/the-one---is-you-is-or-is-you-aint","html_content":"

The One - Is you is? Or Is you ain't?

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/the-one---is-you-is-or-is-you-aint","title":"The One - Is you is? Or, Is you ain't?","summary":"The One - Is you is? Or Is you ain't?","date_modified":"2026-06-29T23:46:16Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glorious-dens-of-sin---part-2-put-the-phone-down","html_content":"

You Cannot Swipe Your Way to Belonging.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glorious-dens-of-sin---part-2-put-the-phone-down","title":"Glorious Dens of Sin - Part 2 : Put The Phone Down","summary":"You Cannot Swipe Your Way to Belonging.","date_modified":"2026-06-22T01:00:00Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glorious-dens-of-sin---gay-bars-matter-still-desperately","html_content":"

We Don't Need Gay Bars Anymore? Sit Down.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glorious-dens-of-sin---gay-bars-matter-still-desperately","title":"Glorious Dens of Sin - Gay bars matter. Still. Desperately.","summary":"We Don't Need Gay Bars Anymore? Sit Down.","date_modified":"2026-06-16T02:11:13Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glow-up-or-shut-up","html_content":"

OFF THE RECORD — AFTER HOURS | CULTURE & IDENTITY

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glow-up-or-shut-up","title":"G.L.O.W. Up, Or Shut Up.","summary":"OFF THE RECORD — AFTER HOURS | CULTURE & IDENTITY","date_modified":"2026-06-09T00:32:39Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/masc-yes-girl---why-men-who-wear-nail-polish-hit-different","html_content":"

Masc? Yes, Girl: Why Men Who Wear Nail Polish Hit Different

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/masc-yes-girl---why-men-who-wear-nail-polish-hit-different","title":"MASC? Yes, Girl - Why Men Who Wear Nail Polish Hit Different","summary":"Masc? Yes, Girl: Why Men Who Wear Nail Polish Hit Different","date_modified":"2026-06-09T00:26:58Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/pride-is-not-a-parade-its-a-protest-and-the-fight-is-not-over-1","html_content":"

Gay Pride Is Not About You.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/pride-is-not-a-parade-its-a-protest-and-the-fight-is-not-over-1","title":"Pride is a protest. And the fight is not over.","summary":"Gay Pride Is Not About You.","date_modified":"2026-05-23T01:32:19Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glow-up---hooked-on-phonics-for-dummies","html_content":"

G.L.O.W. Up! - Hooked on Phonics for Dummies

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/glow-up---hooked-on-phonics-for-dummies","title":"G.L.O.W. Up! - Hooked on Phonics for Dummies","summary":"G.L.O.W. Up! - Hooked on Phonics for Dummies","date_modified":"2026-05-17T19:07:59Z"},{"id":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/daddys-home-lets-fix-your-life-real-quick","html_content":"

There comes a point when somebody has to pull up a chair, lower the lights, pour the drink, and say the thing everyone else is too polite, too scared, or too busy thirst-trapping to say.

","url":"https://offtherecordafterhours.com/inside-companion-blogs/f/daddys-home-lets-fix-your-life-real-quick","title":"Daddy's Home, Let's Fix Your Life Real Quick.","summary":"There comes a point when somebody has to pull up a chair, lower the lights, pour the drink, and say the thing everyone else is too polite, too scared, or too busy thirst-trapping to say.","date_modified":"2026-05-03T18:37:51Z"}]}