
The road to 'becoming' is one that I've been down before. Along the way, I've seen some shit, learned some things, and I'm here to save you a little time. Think of me as the Gay Daddy mentor you never knew you needed. A little wisdom, a little mileage, and a whole lot of opinions. Each week, we'll engage in after-hours discussions that our community truly deserves: about love, family, friendship, failure, and the fucked up process of becoming who you are. All while keeping it off the Record.
We have more visibility than ever as a community, but we lack connection. And more of us are lonely. than anyone wants to say out loud. When was the last time you felt truly known by another person? Not just liked. Not followed. Known. These are the conversations we need to have but aren't having — about the things we know but won't say. About the love and the mess, and the survival. Sometimes with guests, sometimes with you, and sometimes with the version of myself who needed these words twenty years ago.
There is a generation of queer youth, connected to everything, and mentored by no one. Off the Record After Hours exists to close that gap. Because our community deserves conversations that go deeper than hot takes and thirst traps. That's what this podcast is all about: the stories we don't always let ourselves share out loud, the lessons we've learned the hard way. This show is for the ones who need someone older, wiser, funnier, and still alive to say Baby, you're not crazy, but — we need to talk.

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